By Mark La Monica
Hewlett reader Miles wrote about victory in the final game this junior varsity season. He wrote of the 23-22 win against Lawrence, of the crowd cheering, of the adrenaline racing through his teenage veins.
"The feeling of playing in that game, with the crowd cheering and the game on the line was like no feeling I've ever felt," wrote Miles. " . . . Your article defines the beauty of all high school sports."
Miles, and dozens of others, emailed in response to my blog about why high school football matters posted here last week.
It seems I'm not alone in enjoying the beauty and purity of high school football.
"I'd rather watch my two sons play a high school football game than go to the Super Bowl," wrote reader Steve Izzo, a descendant of Vince Lombardi. "No trash, no commercials, just football."
You're not alone, Steve. And it's not just your legendary DNA.
Levittown reader Kathy Martinez, a self-described "psycho mom," gets goose bumps every time she watches her son and his friends play.
"I can’t explain the feeling I get when my son says, 'Mom don’t forget to where my jersey, it brings us luck,'" Martinez wrote. "His team calls me their hardest fan."
Reader Tony Cintado wrote that he has been watching high school football for 18 years and "wouldn’t miss a Bethpage game for anything."
Rough Riders fan Gil Hazel played for Roosevelt from 1968-1972, he wrote. "It's a good experience for the young people in any community on the Island . . . every year is an exciting year."
Southampton reader Mark Epley wrote that he extols the virtues of the sport to his son and friends. "We spend only a small portion of our life playing it and the rest talking about it!"
Texas reader Cindy Cicchetti, whose husband is a displaced Long Islander, wrote: "I live in Texas where high school football is king but you still hit upon the same feelings we have and poignantly so. . . . We have a replay screen in our stadium this year and I don’t like that because it takes away that element of mystery and, like you said, you have to watch every play so you don’t miss anything."
Transplanted Nassau County reader Cynthia Tellefsen does not let a little thing like living in Florida take the fun out of still being married to her transplanted Nassau County husband. "We still check in every Sunday to see how our alumni high schools did on Saturday, just for bragging rights," she wrote.
Texas. Florida. Wow, this web thing really is worldwide. Yet, it was high school football that brought these people back home for a few Internet moments.
In those states, communities are built based upon their football teams. It may not be as crazy here in New York, but we can rally around a cause just as good as the next state.
"Ask anyone from Plainedge, who should be complemented just for fielding a team, let alone an undefeated one," wrote Nassau County reader Rich. "Kudos to them and everyone who rallied to make it happen."
I am not related to Rocky Point reader Sharon Geib but I wouldn't mind putting her on my Season's Greetings card list after reading her thoughts on my thoughts. "You are so right with everything you have said," she wrote.
Toot! Toot!
Sorry. Couldn't resist.
A winning season at Rocky Point has stirred some emotions that I'm sure every parent has experienced. Among them:
* Waiting for Newsday during the week to see the polls and watch your hometown team climb for the first time.
* Seeing young men you have known since first and second grade doing so well and cheering them on like they are your own child.
* Remembering to take every moment in because it is the last season for your kid and wondering what you are going to do next year on Saturday. (Probably go to the games to watch other kids you know)
A "very proud football mom" delights in the purity of cold, rickety bleachers and stepping around muddy puddles. "My 9-year-old son dreams of being a professional QB one day, but for now watching him enjoying playing the game is worth a million dollars in a mom's heart !!!"
Indeed, three exclamations are in order here. But it's not just about the parents. Those on the field know why high school football matters.
A SUNY Albany reader with St. Anthony's bling on his resume wrote, "I miss those cold nights of dominating the CHSFL and winning four straight championships. Hopefully this year is five!"
That's quite possible. The Friars are looking mighty tough again and haven't lost a CHSFL game since before the league was invented. St. Anthony's hosts Chaminade in the AAA semifinals Friday night at 7 p.m. (Click for complete schedule)
"It seems as the final weeks of ultimately my sporting career in high school wind down, we all forget about the horrible running in the preseason and weightlifting over the summer," wrote a current senior football player from parts unknown. "We all as a senior class have come to the realization that we are the football team of 2005 and that is something that no team can ever take away from us."
Which is what makes high school football, well, high school football. And the same holds true for any sport. Soccer, field hockey, baseball, softball, basketball, wrestling, swimming, tennis, whatever. When the games go away, the memories must remain.
"Silly me, I arrange my work schedule and errands around the games, and meet the team wherever they go with a truck full of unruly 8th graders . . . next year's aspiring JV players," Southampton reader Ginny wrote. "Haven't been able to figure out a better way to spend a Saturday . . . I'll be the little old lady still screaming on the sidelines (I can't sit . . .gotta follow the ball!) years from now."
Many thanks to the more than 7,500 readers and the dozens of emailers on this topic.