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Keep the condo; I want the cocker.

Tomorrow's column talks about pups in the crossfire, caught in the push-me-pull-you of divorce. Who gets to keep the dog? Or who wants to use Fido as emotional ammo? Keep the condo; I want the cocker.

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At least the dogs in these battles are wanted. Too many times dogs are surrendered to shelters due to divorce.

Let the humans fight it out in court as long as the dogs are taken care of. Unfortunately, in some cases, the animals become pawns in the spousal battle to get the upper hand and one over on the other. And one of the spouses usually gets hurt. But...we can make those choices-our dogs cannot.
DOGS RULE!!!
Mila

That is so true, Mila. That is what happened to the 2 senior greyhounds that ended up at Montville A.C. Neither party wanted them and the husband kept the Italian Grey. What slimebuckets and liers they were. Those 2 seniors were so scared and confused. Thank goodness for Jane, the A.C. officer. The foster family fell in love with them and kept them. If a couple wants a divorce, make sure the pets are taken care of as well as the children. Both can get lost in the chaos and end up being the victims because the couple puts their own needs above the other family members.

IF i would ever get divorced, my hubby would have to pry all 5 of mine out of my cold, dead hands. MINE, MINE, MINE (right Monica???)
hello, kids!!!!! beautiful here in NYC today. going for another shot on Monday so i will be out of it until wed.-ish. AND i'm on muscle relaxers which means NO BEER!!!!!!!!!!!! in Roooby's honor: ACCCCKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! someone kill me!!!!!

Mine would probably give them to me as they are so spoiled. Of course he helped spoil them. Good to hear from you Darlene.

PAT, PAT DARLENE...
The beer industry is going broke since you've been off the sauce...
xoxoxorooby

Hi Everyone,
I just read in the paper that Lt. Alan Borgal ( remember he had offered to try to net Vivi when she appeared to be in one area) removed 90 dogs and puppies from a Randolph, MA home that looked like it was used for breeding. He had vets come and check the dogs in the backyard before they took them away. Has anyone heard more about this?
Always thinking of Vivi, Sarge and our lost and sick babies. May more miracles come soon with better weather.

Vivi could sure use some candles.

Good morning Daddy God. How we praise you for all you have done for us and for your creatures. Thank you for keeping your ever watchful on Vivi and for keeping her safe and healthy. Thank you for providing for her. Daddy God, you know exactly where she is. Please shine your light on her and show your chosen ones where she is. Please bring her home quickly. She needs to come home and we need her so badly. Our hearts break when there is no news of her. But we know you will bring her through this and bring your precious miracle of her rescue when we least expect it. It will just happen and how we will rejoice in your mighty deeds. We thank you in advance for Vivi being found safe and sound. We ask you to hold Darlene and bring her complete restoration. Help her to feel your presence and continue your healing grace in Madison, BJ, Winnie, Luca, Genevieve, Pepper, and all who are not feeling well. Heal them and bring them into your perfect restoration and wholeness. How we love you and look to you for your wisdom, guidance and tender mercies that are never ending. In Jesus's Name we praise you!!!

HELLO KIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'M OFF OF THE PILLS!!!!!! EVERYONE BETTER CHECK ANHEISER BUSCH'S STOCKS RIGHT AWAY. THE STOCK IS GONNA HIT THE ROOF ONCE I GET STARTED :)
WOOHOO - I'M BACK!!!!!!!! whew - that was a nitemare. HA.

I am so glad your back Darlene. We have really missed you. I will get some of Busch's stock now before it goes any higher. Very glad you are doing good.

HA!!!!!!!!!!!!! good one Kay!!!!!! missed all of you guys too!!! i need a favor please - as a PA. taxpayer and an owner of a PitBull, i am asking for you all to sign the petition below to stop the BSL law in PA. this is ridiculous - they will kill the inncoent and defenseless just because they are born Pit, Rottie, Dobie, etc. this can't happen!!!!! If anyone tried to touch my Luna, they would be toothless!!! PLEASE PLEASE COPTY AND PASTE AND SIGN THIS PETITION TO STOP THIS STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!! thank you all so much on behalf of me and my Pittie!!!!!
Urgent***********************************************
- Sign petition against breed specific legislation in Pennsylvania - Dog
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Will do Darlene. Vivi could sure use some candles lit.

Keep lighting those candles for Vivi. Go to
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Vivi and let her feel your love.

Good morning Daddy God. Thank you for all you do for us. How we need you. Daddy God, bring our beloved Vivi home quickly and lead her into the path of your rescuers. We know it will happen. When we least expect it, you will bring her home. We just know you will, because you are the Almighty and Powerful and wonder working Lord God. How we love you and how we trust you. Our faith is strong and you alone will recieve all the Glory and Honor for the wonderful rescue of our precious Vivi. Daddy God, we lift Dante up to you. We place him in your loving arms for healing and deliverance. We stand in faith Daddy God and we believe for perfect restoration and wholeness and well being for Dante. Daddy God, surround him with your presence, for it is in your presence that miracles happen and health is restored. It is in your presence that the seas are parted and the mountains are moved. How glorious you are. Touch Dante with your magnificent power and might. And renew his youth like the eagle's. Continue your glorious healing in all of our babies, Pepper, Luca, Winney, Guenevieve, Ashley, Sophie, Rose, and our human loved ones too. Darlene, Madison, BJ, Kathleen, Sharon's mom, and all who are not feeling well. Surround all of us with your love and tender mercies and compassion. We love you so and how we want to be in your loving arms and care. We trust you Daddy God, for you are our strength, our life and our one true and deepest friend and Father. In Jesus's Name we praise you!!

I think my husband and I would have to stay together for the good of the dogs. There's just no way either of us would relent since we both love the dogs so much. It's amazing that we consider them like our kids and it'll just break our hearts to split them up since they all get along so well and to be without any of them. So, that's why we'll never get divorced!

COSTUME JEWELRY BUYER - I know just what you mean. I'm not married now, but I would never turn my babies over to anyone else.

Isn't it sad though how many people would fight to save their marriage to keep their doggies (or other pets), and yet so many don't think twice about the "children" affected by their divorce.

I am a divorcee who raised two children, so I can be included. I did, however, insist my ex-husband and his family would be my best friends always and my children would have TWO loving families for the rest of their lives. It worked, and now I have been so blessed with a wonderful life with my in-laws, and a best friend with my ex-husband who helps me so much.

HA - KATHLEEN!!! LOVE THE ENDING OF YOUR NAME - REMINDS ME OF SOMEONE..... HMMMM.... GANG, ONCE AGAIN I AM ASKING FOR JUST A SECOND OF YOUR TIME. THIS IS ABOUT MIRA - SHE NEEDS YOU TO QUICKLY EMAIL 2 PEOPLE BEGGING FOR HER TO BE QUARANTINED IN A HOME FOR ONLY 6 MONTHS. MIRA IS SHORT FOR "MIRACLE" AND IF I COULD POST HER PICTURE, YOU WOULD ALL LOVE HER!! SHE'S AN ELDERLY GAL - BLACK WITH AN ADORABLE "OLD LADY" WHITE SNOUT. HER STORY IS BELOW AND SO ARE THE CONTACTS:
This is the last appeal in concern to saving the little soul in Independence, MO Animal Services. Having consulted with a person who is versed in these types of cases - his advice was simple. Many people truly have worked very hard to ensure that this girl gets the fairest treatment in the decision in regard to the law and so, there is something we can still do to help her.
Please keep in mind from the onset, the shelter has only been following the Department of Agriculture's advice - and following protocol due to "public safety issues". If it is determined, that there is still concern about her potential exposure to a rabid animal from health officials and those who are experts in the county and state, the other option if this must be followed is to quarantine her. If this decision occurs, there is the possibility that it may even be done in a veterinary facility. There have been many angels who have worked tirelessly in concern to her as she's come to be a representation of the many animals who are in great need in county shelters everywhere. The fact that she has lived on this earth this long, only to have her life end because of this, is touching us all. Some have offered to take her in while others have offered sponsorship to pay for boarding or medical needs.
And so, because the shelter staff works very hard taking care of the animals who come through their doors - having to take time to answer the phone is not in the best interest of all involved and we must respect their need to maintain their facility. Instead, please send the shelter a note of heartfelt thoughts - to please save her.....It has been said that there is nationwide interest for her and thus, if we can do this in a polite and kind way, we only wish to convey to the shelter with understanding that we are simply caring individuals who have regard and respect for the life of one little gray-muzzled angel.
Special thanks to all who have prayed, written, researched and offered their help for her and is she is now being called "Mira" short for Miracle....(something we are still hoping for)

Through the work of a wonderful local person in Independence who has worked very hard for Mira we are asking all pleas to be emailed accordingly as well.
"We have learned that the fate of Mira, rests in the hands of Larry Jones, Director of Health in our city. His email is ljones@indepmo.org (@indepmo.org) You can additionally CC your email to awells@indepmo.org (@ indepmo.org)
They need to know how much people care. I believe he is going to be the one to make the final decision on her life. He oversees the shelter, from afar, and oversees the shelter manager. I have just emailed him again asking that Mira be allowed the quarantine of 6 months either at a vet or at a foster home as the only animal - Let's pray he allows it. I'm still praying for a miracle."
Phone called could be respectfully placed also to the office at 816-325-7986
IT'S LONG BUT SHE IS WORTH IT!!!!! PLEASE CONTACT LARRY JONES - HE NEEDS TO KNOW WE ALL CARE ABOUT MIRA. THANKS!!!!!!!

Hi all,
Please email the 2 people in Darlene's post above in regards to Mira. It takes very little time and may mean life for this lovely senior girl doggie. Her face in the picture makes you want to hug her and tell her it will be ok.... she is so precious. She cannot end her days this way, esp when there are people who are willing to keep her for the quarantine period without risk to public safety. No reason to kill her.
XOXO
Mila

WILL DO DARLENE.. IT'S A HEART BREAKING STORY..XOXO TO MIRA


KATHY-CO'S DAUGHTERS DOGGIE NEEDS PRAYERS...THE DOG IS AN OLDER GIRL AND IS HAVING TROUBLE GETTING UP. THE DOCTOR WANTS TO TRY A DRUG TO HELP HER. PRAY THAT IT WORKS!

THE CANDLE SITE IS WAITING FOR YOU GUYS TO LIGHT UP. : VIVI, MIRA AND SHY-ANNE.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng

THE ABOVE INFO WAS MINE!!!!!!!!!! I'M SURE YOU ALL KNOW WHO..HEH...SHY-ANNE HAS A CANDLE SITE NOW!

XOXOROOBY

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=SHYAN

Thanks for posting and setting up the candlesite Ma --- I will update as I hear about ShyAnne.

Glad you are better Darlene --- I've missed you

The blog won't let Betty post, so I am posting her beautiful prayer for her:

Good morning Daddy God. Thank you so much for your tender care and love over Sniffles. How very very grateful we are. Please bring our beloved Vivi in next. How we need her to be home and off of the streets. Bring her into the tender and loving arms of your chosen ones. Continue holding her in the palm of your hand and cuddling her close to your heart. Thank you for your shelter, provision and protection. We just know you have cared for all of her needs all of this time. We are so thankful to you Daddy God. Bring us news soon of where she is and shine your light brightly upon her. Bring her home to the love she so richly deserves. We ask for your intervention for Mira. Bring this miracle baby life and a forever loving home under your watchful eye and care. Heal little ShyAnne. Cover her in your presence and power and bring total healing to her Lord. How we love our babies that you have so freely given to us. Raise her up in your power Daddy God. Continue your healing grace and love in our beloved Dante. You have brought him so far and we know you will continue to bring him into perfect health and victory. Thank you for your continuous healing in Pepper, Winnie, Luca. , Guenevieve, Ashley, Sophie, Rose, Contessa, Iggy and all who are not feeling well today. We bring Julie to you. Please heal this beautiful little girl and restore her to perfect health. Thank you for bringing our Darlene back to us. How we missed her. Continue your perfect healing in her and bring her back to her finest and best. Continue your precious healing in Madison, Kathleen, Irene, Sharon's mom and hold all of us in your arms. Lead all of us and guide us, strengthen us and help us to be all that you want us to be as we follow your voice and strive to do your will. How we love you. In Jesus's name, we praise you!!

JL - Thank you for posting this for Betty.

BETTY - You will never know how much this sweet prayer means to me and all the others I'm sure. I am having some serious struggles and issues right now, and I needed this prayer so much to remind me to "take it to the Lord in prayer." God bless you sweet lady. We love you.

DITTO THAT - WE LOVE YOU BETTY AND MIGUEL!!!!
ON A GOOD NOTE - YOU GUYS ALL REMEMBER ME BEGGING FOR HELP FOR OUR BABIES WHO WERE ALMOST IN THE CLUTCHES OF EVIL IN CANADA? WELL, OUR RUBY ANGEL WENT HOME SATURDAY!!! IT'S BEEN A YEAR SINCE SHE WAS FOUND IN A FIELD IN ALABAMA WHERE A SCUM BAG SHOT ALL OF HER BABIES AND LEFT HER. SHE WAS BOUGHT NORTH AND THE WEENIES AND MANY FANTASTIC FRIENDS HERE SUPPORTED HER SINCE THEN. I HAVE MET MANY NEW ANIMAL RESCUE FRIENDS BECAUSE OF HER AND A YEAR LATER, HER BAGS WERE PACKED IN LONG ISLAND AND SHE HEADED FOR A REMARKABLE HOME IN CONNECTICUT!!!!! LOOK OUT NEW ENGLAND - OUR RUBY ANGEL HAS ARRIVED!!!! THIS IS PROOF POSITIVE THAT MIRACLES CAN HAPPEN, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY TAKE A LITTLE LONGER THAN YOU EXPECT.
SNIFFLES, RUBY, AND GUESS WHO'S NEXT???? THINGS HAPPEN IS 3'S... MAYBE JUST MAYBE!!!!!! AND YES, GIRLS, THE SPINAL INJECTIONS ARE FINALLY KICKING BUTT AND I AM GETTING BETTER - READY TO CHASE DOGGIES AND BEER TRUCKS. HA!!!!!!!
KATHY - HOW'S SHY, HONEY????

Mira is SAFE!!! She will spend the next 6 months in quarantine (praying that she was not infected with the rabies) and when she gets out Mira has a forever home waiting for her. All the letters and emails and calls made a difference in the decision to let her live!!

Yayyyyyy for Ruby Angel!!! What a glorious red headed (well, whole body) girl she is! And what a wonderful life she has in her future. Way to go, ladies! Because of you all she does have that future!
Hooray for spinal injections! Darlene, great to know you will soon be out there searching and chasing and kicking azzzzzzzzzz!!!
Betty-you rock and your prayers move us all!
XOXO
Mila

Hi Everyone,

It's been a while since I posted (daughter's wedding planning for July 26) and I'm glad to see things are looking better. Darlene, glad to see you're feeling better and posting. Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Betty - I also thank you for your prayers. They are so moving and beautiful. My grandpup Luca is feeling much better. He's on a new dog food and my daughter puts all natural plain yogurt with it. He absolutely loves it! Luca was getting constant yeast infections and that seems to be controlling it. So now he's able to go outside and play in his plastic pool. Winnie has been holding her own with the cataracts. The cataract covered her entire left eye and she can't see out of it and the right eye is starting to get the same way. I feel so bad that I didn't catch this sooner. It seems to have progressed very quickly. I just didn't notice it unfortunately before it was too late. Now I plan on getting her drops to see if that will help. Has anyone every heard or tried C-Can for cataracts in humans and animals? I did some research on it and it sounds pretty promising. Surgery can't be done for her. At 14 yrs. old and no guarantees I can't take that chance. But it so breaks my heart seeing her like this. She walked off the side of the bed twice already because she didn't judge right. Any input would be appreciated.

Well, take care everyone,

Laura

Thought I would post an update for those that wanted to know about my arm. After the fall, I finally went to the orthopedic surgeon today. I kept putting it off because I had a "gut feeling" it was not going to be good news.

Dr. Lochemes cringed when he saw me, and couldn't believe I had hurt his 5-hour surgery. I found out the 3 plates and 28 pins in this arm have been shifting, moving and breaking for a while now. He did not think the fall did the damage as much as a slow deterioration over the past few years. In summary, I have one part of the elbow surgery which is a complete non-join, and the upper part of my arm is functioning to move somewhat like a elbow. Very bizarre he said. He feels surgery to try and repair this might be of "epidemic proportions," and maybe impossible. I could lose much more control of my arm. He said the previous surgery was a "piece of cake" compared to what this surgery would entail.

So I am to think this over for the next month or so and see if I can live with the pain instead. I plan on getting a second and maybe third opinion, so please be praying I will find an answer. Thank you Betty for your continuing prayers for me. I guess I am very blessed to be able to use this arm at all.

Wish I were closer to help you Kathleen. My husband has arthritis in his elbows hands and knees. He has had surgery on one elbow and hand and they fused his thumb. He has been told if he doesn't have surgery on his knees, he will be in a wheelchair in five years. I know how much pain he has so I can guess at yours. Please let us know how you are doing.

KATHLEEN Ssssssss - WHAT AR E YOU DOIND DEARIE?? TRYING TO OUTDO ME??? LET ME SEND YOU MY RECOMMENDED CARE PACKAGE: 6 PACK BUD LIGHT AND A FISTFUL OF VICODIN. :) YOU'LL BE SWINGING A BAT IN NO TIME LIKE DAVID WRIGHT (**GO, METS**). SERIOUSLY, I WISH YOU ONLY THE BEST, MY FRIEND - I'LL PRAY FOR A MIRACLE AS YOU HAVE DONE MANY TIMES FOR ME. LAURA AND KAY, AND OF COURSE MY MILA (WHO ACTUALLY HAD THE ***** TO COME AND CONFRONT THE EVILNESS OF THE WEENIE CREW - THANK YOU ALL FOR CARING ABOUT ME!!!!! LAURA, IT'S GOOD TO SEE THINGS ARE LOOKING UP, TO HAVE YOU BACK, AND TO HEAR ABOUT A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING COMING UP!!!! I, TOO, WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING WITH THE CATS. ON MY ANDI - DIDN'T CAtCH THEM IN TIME EITHER. THEY CAME OUT OF NOWHERE BUT SHE DID FUNCTION WELL AS SHE WENT ALMOST TOTALLY LIND AND LIVED AND HAPPY GO LUCKY LIFE UNTIL SHE WENT TO THE BRIDGE AT THE RIPE OLD AGE OF 16 YRS. :) THEY ADJUST QUICKLY DARLING AND AS LONG AS SHE'S NOT IN PAIN, SHE'LL BE ACES. LOOK AT ME - ONE LEGGED AND ALL, I HAVE STILL FOUND THE ABILITY TO TORTURE PEOPLE :) AND I WANT TO THANK AL WHO WROTE ABOUT MIRA - YOU GUYS SAVED HER AND YOU OUGHT TO BE PROUD OF YOURSELVES!!!!! AND LASTLY, I CAN'T EVEN WRITE WORDS ABOUT MY RUBY ANGEL'S HAPPY ENDING. SHE WAS AND WILL ALWAYS BE MINE ALTHOUGH IT WASN'T IN THE CARDS WITH ALL THAT I HAVE NOW. KARMA IS A WRONDERFUL THING AND FOR HER, IT TOOK A LITTLE LONGER BUT SHE FINALLY SNIFFED OUT THAT ELUSIVE POT AT THE END OF THE RAINBOW. AGAIN, I WANT TO THANK ALL WHO HELPED US WITH HER, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DID TO HELP, IT WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. ALTHOUGH ALOT OF YOU GUYS AREN'T HERE MUCH, WE STILL ARE ONE HELL OF A GROUP AND THE TOPPER WILL BE FINDING THAT LITTLE SCUM (WHO KNOW WHO....) THEN, LET THE PARTY REALLY BEGIN. I MISS YOU ALL TERRIBLY. OH, AND LOIS IS STILL A GREEDY SLEEZEBAG. hee, hee!!!!!! ROOOOBY - YOU LOVES YA BABY??????

i have no clue what i just typed in half of the words above. SHEESH!!!!! no, i am not drinking again..... HA

Hi everyone,
Darlene, it's great to read your posts again and you make perfectly good sense to me. I'm still here and can't wait for the big party when we find that stealthy Canine Girl. And we will since I have become more stubborn in my middle, but better, years. I can wait out the best of them.
Kathleen, thinking of you always. Get as many opinions

Darlene,
Annunciate darlin' and we'll ALL understand what you said..heh
Glad to see you in here..

Don't forget the candle site people::::::::Vivi, Dante,
D for Darlene, Shy-Anne and all our humans, besides Darlene.......
44371
xoxoxorooob/m

I'm really losing it. I didn't finish the sentence from this morning before I went out and don't remember posting it. Anyway, Kathleen, get 2nd and 3rd opinions from other doctors. Have you gone to any alternative practitioners like holistic or accupuncture? One never knows what could help the pain and mobility.

I guess we have to go read Grateful to find out that Vivi may have been sighted not once but twice! How sad is that?

VIVI IS HER NAME, IT'S NOT 'SCUM' OR 'YOU KNOW WHO'. JUST VIVI. WHAT BOTHERS YOU SO MUCH ABOUT THOSE FOUR LETTERS THAT YOU CAN'T EVEN TYPE THEM OR ACKNOWLEDGE THEM? VERY STRANGE.

VIVI, VIVI, VIVI....IT'S THAT SIMPLE. VIVI DESERVES AT LEAST THAT IF YOU CARE ABOUT HER AS MUCH AS YOU SAY...

Anonymous, why are you so critical? We know who Darlene was talking about and the term " little scum" is and always has been a term of endearment for Vivi on this blog.
You must be new here or you would not have questioned that. And as far as Darlene being "bothered" to mention Vivi's name? Don't know her very well, do ya?
Mila


"WE"????? I am not new here and I have always found those little nasty knick names offending for Vivi.
Dont worry about getting any" NEW" people here. Most have been chased off for having an opinoin other than yours!

Awwww ... comeon' anon. Everyone on here loves Vivi. Was just stating my opinion to your opinion, thats all!!! Now you are offending me and I am not going anywhere!!!
And Darlene was making a wonderful statement in her post which is very encouraging (at least to me, anyway).
Mila

I'm not new here either and been through all of this nonsense before....you only WISH there were new people here. Your attitudes and ideas that only certain people can express views and thoughts is what has killed this blog, big time! Only a privileged "FEW" can know there is a sighting...more bs, piled higher and deeper. Everyone else is torn to shreds.

VIVI pays the price now and always has for HUGE inflated egos that need constant adulation and attention....it's immature behavior and the important focus here is VIVI...not any one person.

SCUM is NOT a term of endearment in anyone's book....many of us are offended by the use of these names for a dog we've loved and prayed for now for well over two years....call Vivi what you will in private, but have the courtesy to use her name, VIVI, on the blog. I am sure you wouldn't want some of the names used for you in private used on this blog...HA!

LOVE YOU DARLENE AND VIVI SO DON'T LET ANYONE SAY A SINGLE THING TO BOTHER YOU.
I HAVE FOUND IN THIS VERY LONG 2 YEARS PLUS, THAT LAUGHTER HELPS. GOD KNOWS THERE HAVE BEEN MANY, MANY TEARS.

MEAN COMMENTS HAVE ALSO BEEN PUT ON
VIVI'S CANDLE SITE. THAT SITE IS TO PRAY FOR HER AND WISH HER THE BEST.

STILL HOPING FOR THAT SPECIAL MIRACLE FOR WHAT I CONSIDER, "OUR GIRL"

XOXOROOBY

Darlene letting somebody bother her with what they say??? I don't think so - Our darlin' Darlene doesn't bother with the little stuff like someone telling her what to say or call something. Little Scum is the same as Wiley Whippet, wascally whippet or any of the other "names" we refer to Vivi as. If anonymous can speak the big tough words than sign your name and stop hiding behind anoniminity.

Kathleen - sorry to hear you are having tough times with your arm --- praying for the best - get that second and third opinion deary.

Update on ShyAnne --- my daughter said she was outside going potty and when she called her name to come in --- she was trying to run - so apparently she is feeling and manuvering better - thanks for the prayers and candles.

Although I don't post much anymore, not because I've forgotten Vivi, but because of people like anonymous who try to stir things up among us and haven't the guts to sign their name. DON'T try and put Darlene down. I know she doesn't need me to defend her but we've been in this together since Feb.15 '06---day 1 and she put in many many hours on the ground searching for Vivi. You sound like a very bitter and vindictive person. It's not important who knows what and when. If Vivi is ever found EVERYONE will know and that's all that's important. Just pray that day will come soon.

Margot

I have all sorts of names for my dogs. It doesn't mean I don't love them. Same for VIVI. Only a few have tried to stir up trouble here. We all work together and pray together for animals and humans. Darlene has worked far harder than most have and she knows she has our support.

MANY people searched and posted flyers and worked very hard for a LONG time to save Vivi. It was NOT a one person operation, though it's sometimes made to sound that way. People also contributed money to try and save Vivi on many occasions.

I certainly respect your right to your opinions and thoughts; however, your amateur psychanalysis is DEAD wrong. I am not a bitter and vindictive person. I am a frustrated and disappointed realist at what I've had a front row seat to here for more than two years. The results are what you see. Vivi has not been found and there is no closure for most of us.

We are asked to PRAY for Vivi's safety, yet we are not even given the respect to know that there were two possible sightings of Vivi and what is being done to see if it is Vivi. Only a privileged few are permitted to have their hopes rise and to know there is a glimmer of hope....WHO THE HELL MADE THOSE RULES AND WHY IS THAT?

It is sad that so many people who worked SO hard and walked their feet off posting and looking for Vivi for many months are now treated as second class citizens and not entitled to know if there is a call that comes in....that's what has discouraged and driven so many good people away. I see now that the same mentality is still alive and well...so sad, so damn sad.

Bottom line is that Vivi deserves RESPECT.....she deserves to be called VIVI.....not derogatory names that should be saved for private conversations. It offends many people and it isn't cute or charming, so please stop doing that.

Thank you for reminding me that the blog mentality remains just the same.....closed and ready to rip apart anyone who has another view to post.


"A ROSE BY ANY OTHER NAME WOULD SMELL AS SWEET."

Meaning: What matters is what something is, not what it is called.

Origin: From Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, 1594:

Vivi is definitely a ROSE, and will always remain that sweet smelling ROSE to everyone who has fought so hard to bring her home.

Love KathleenSsss and Ms. (S)tinkerbell (her love)

Nothing killed this blog...it is still here.
And so are we.

Anonymous,
I am sorry you feel the way you do. Obviously you are in NYC and have been out there with the others searching and posting, desperately wanting Vivi to be rescued... as we all do.
As for the blog mentality, your post fits right in with some of the other negative postings this site has seen over the last two years and more. And you say "everyone has a right to their opinion" but you seem just as quick to judge and play the blame game.

KathleenSssss, please keep us updated on how your arm is doing and get those other opinions.
Darlene? Can't wait till you back to your naughty and good self 100%!!!

We are asked to write letters and send e-mails in order to help the dogs you post about and we do!
but yet you cannot post about a couple possible sightings of Vivi on this blog??
We have written letters sent e-mails and donated money to help you with the dogs you have asked for help on.
But yet we have to read Grateful, to see that these last two sightings are being sat on and nothing is being done about them? So now we are asking, Why dont you take the line up Photo's to this man to see if it can be confirmed that it's Vivi being walked by a man? Thats the least you can do for us!

Good questions. What is being done about these sightings of a dog that is possibly Vivi?
What is Grateful?

I believe by "Grateful" they must mean the Gratefulness candle site where we light candles. I wondered at first myself. This is the only thing I could come up with for the "Grateful term" used in the blog entry.

Thanks everyone. I am definitely checking out all possibilities. I will be heading to a specialist at the world-renown orthopedic surgery group, Campbell Clinic. I have also been pursuing getting digital copies of my x-rays to send to some of the people on the internet who have written research papers on surgeries very similar to this. I'm hoping one of these will have some good input. The thought of the limitation and pain with this arm for the rest of my life is just not acceptable to me if anything can be changed. Just keep praying please. I trust God. He never gives us a trial or problem that He does not also provide a solution as well. He is a wonderful Daddy God as Betty would say.

He will also bring Vivi back to us when the time is right in His timeframe.

I haven't posted here for awhile but that doesn't mean I don't check in. It's kind of amusing that "Anonymous" feels she's entitled to spew her/his venom but then gets so defensive whenever anyone posts anything to contradict her/his point of view.

Kathleen, take care honey. Keep us all updated on your progress. Give your mob a few kisses and hugs from me.

What's going on with this possible sighting? I wasn't aware of it either but I'm not getting vindictive about it.

I forgot to say Kathy in Co - great news on Shyanne!!

It's my feeling that "Anonymous" is a person who perhaps posted flyers and searched for Vivi in the past. Why doesn't this person get in touch with someone on the Vivi phone and see about checking with the man who saw her? If would sure make things easier and we'd all know whats going on for sure.....Easier said than done maybe?

Vivi needs candles as do our humans and little Dante who is giving Val fits by not always eating his food.
He had a good report when he was at the Holistic Vets, but he keeps messing with Val and not eating at times.

xoxorooby

ahhhhh.... so every time i speak, i am attacked STILL by those who do and know so much... everyone - WE were called by Rosa - you remember her, Ms. Mystery, the one with CANCER. i DARE you to speak with her the way you think you can get to me. you don't have the the b****s. one thing, my sweet - you will never ever understand or have the privledge of meeting and being involved with the diehard, selfless, loving people I am. if you were so truly involved, you would know what's going on - sightings or not. ya see - most of us keep in touch irregardless, and that leads me to believe I do know who you are by your writings. incinuate what you will, do what you will, but know one thing - MY friends i would kill for and they would do the same for me. BTW - where have you been posting cuz we were in whitestone and flushing and saw NOTHING. game over. there's a girl from New England who i'm sure runs circles around you and actually has a heart. and - IF you kept in contact with ANYONE who searched, you would know what the hell is going on. ummm... phone numbers are on the flyers - maybe try one, Ms. Perfect. OH - AND MONICA, DEBBIE, LOIS, AND I HAVE RENAMED HER - SCUMMI (sounds more feminine). if you can't laugh at this point, you were never involved with us from day one. AND - AS FOR THAT - I WAS THE FIRST TO SHOW AT JFK - i live less than 5 miles away. Kathy CO - yey for the baby!!!!! glad she's OK :) i love you!!!! and Roooby - i'm sending you some new panties like you asked me to. xoxoxo HI, SUSAN, KAY AND MARGOT!!!!!!!!! good times, huh?? BEER CAN SHOES FOR EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!! i missed you guys!!!!!!! now where the hell is MartheRRRRRRR, Rooooby????

DARLENE, YOU GUTS ARE THE BEST! LOVE THE NAME, IT HAS A RING TO IT..DING,DING, DING...I WILL NO LONGER CALL YOU GALS TRAMPS, FROM NOW ON YOU ARE, SKANKS..HEH

LOVE YOU XOXOX ROOBY/M

OH DEAR, WHEN WILL I LEARN TO PROOF READ...THE WORD WAS SUPPOSE TO BE

" GUYS".......HOW EMBARASSING
THAT I WOULD USE THE TERM GUTS..HOW TACKY, NOT A BIT LIKE THE LADY I AM......ACKKKKK...HELP ME!

XOXOROOBY

ROOOBY - Well said, BELCH! Not very Southern lady like. . . .

KathleenSssss,

SNORT! xoxoxrooby

Ha, Ha! Same blog, different year!!

I love it!!

How about this! Vivi, the Bitch!! I hate her and when we find her I am going to personally break her legs so she can't run anymore, or maybe just twist them so she limps.

WooooooooHoooooooooooo I knew those 300 candles for Vivi a few weeks ago would shake something up or were because everyone sensed something was shaking. Don't usually go so long without checking in on that little bitch Vivi, but I missed gratefulness.org and this blog for about the last 3 days though and just now saw the possible sighting on this blog. Who posted it on Gratefullness? It only stays up for 2 days there.
It lifts the spirits and chases away the feelings of despair to hear this. Try to remain optimistic but it is hard with no news! I hope too we will hear some follow up on these reports.

Not being critical, just been hanging around so long that it's impossible to quit.

Let's get 300 up there again and maybe more news will follwo

Kathy of Bayside,
I have to say you have a SICK TWISTED sense of HUMOR!
Dont know how in the world you could even think of that as funny. It's actually VERY SAD!!

You said above "Same Old Blog, Different Year" THANKS FOR REMINDING US OF WHY THAT IS!

Gosh Kathy, I'm a little surprised with your comment. I don't find that funny at all. I would have never expected that out of you. So sad.

Kathy Bayside: Not funny at all. You really went over the line trying to be comical when in fact it is just disrespectful to Vivi and angered me to read it.Vivi's plight never was and never will be something to joke about.

Kathy, would you find it funny if someone joked like that about your own dog if it were lost?
It's pathetic and disturbing! What a low this blog has sunk to. She didnt ask for this and some of us take her plight a little more seriously.
God help VIVI!

What's so sad about the last 2 yrs is that SO MANY people have helped with ViVi but for whatever reason only a few knows what's going on. Another thing that is sad to me is that if I had a friend with cancer taking chemo and radiation I would take some of that stress off and follow up myself with any potential sightings. You guys are putting alot on Rosa's plate to take care of everything. Now that's sad to me.

I am SURE Kathy Bayside meant no harm with her statement. She has been one of the people who has worked hard also to find Vivi. She was just expressing in her way her FRUSTRATION with Vivi and the search over the last 2 years.

These ladies have worked tirelessly trying to track and find Vivi, and ANYONE would be frustrated. Please cut some slack here, and don't attack people who has helped Vivi and others in New York. I know we all have made comments when we are frustrated at times. I know I sure have.

Just the other day I jokingly threatened to "break the knuckles" of my good friend at work if she randomized "one more patient to a study." We both laughed hard because we knew how tired and frustrated we both were with the fast pace at work - so many new patients - HIV is on the raise again folks. I think Kathy Bayside was probably feeling that same frustration with Vivi. She wants her to stop running from us so badly so their lives can return to the way they were before Vivi's unfortunate loss and long journey.

We ALL love Vivi more than even we probably will ever realize. Her medallion hangs in my office at work to always remind me to pray for her continuously to be found and safe.

We are a family here - Vivi's extended family. This blog and Vivi have united us in a way we would have never known each other before - we have learned so much from this journey.

We have all worked hard for ViVi but I would never say those words out of frustration. This blog has hit rock bottom.

I'm disgusted with the way things are being done, the way things have been handled from day one and the end result

I have never understood why in over the past year or so, New possible sightings were not reported to the blog? why wouldnt anyone want more eyes out there looking for Vivi? isnt getting the word out the best thing to do?
I dont care to hear that the area may be trampled on thats old already, we should be so lucky that anyone would want to run out there and look for her and be aware.

Oh please. This isl absolutely ridiculous. Give it a rest.

Your sense of entitlement regarding Vivi is laughable. Just because you spent an hour tacking up some posters doesn't entitle you to this so-called "insider" knowledge. Go mind your own business.

Kathleen, good luck with your arm. Hope you find doctors who can give you some relief. My mom had the same arthritis, and alot of the same issues as you.

There are way to many people posting as Anonymous. Who is saying what is impossible to keep track of. You know there are two rectangles above the "comments" box that are easily filled in with a name, etc.

If you all can't see the point of Kathy/Bayside's comment after over two long years of tireless fruitless search for this little dog and you are watching from afar, it is pointless to try and explain it. You all have never heard of the macabre sense of dark humor by medical people that look life and death in the face every day?? Why do you think people that do that job every day of their life, of saving other lives, make "apparently" disrespectful comments about the job and people they deal with?????? It is something like that. It is how some people keep their sanity and who are you all to judge another's state of mind.

Kathy is just blowing off steam. Obviously she doesn't wish any harm. So chillax with all the "crossed the line" melodrama and learn to open your mind to other ways people have for expressing themselves.

So for example instead of saying that someone is an uptight biotch who lives alone with 25 cats/dogs and takes everything literally and is offended by everything that doesn't fall under her standards, you can say she's an ultra sensitive individual who only has the best interests of Vivi at heart. So like that.

Why are names so important...the ideas and thoughts expressed are what is important.

Kathy Bayside and her disgusting post speaks volumes about her. Doesn't she realize people are worried to death Vivi could have gotten just those injuries in traffic during these years. Who would ever think of such a thing with any animal. very sad.

Puleeeezzzz!!!!!!!!!! Most likely Vivi is worm food, so all your hand wringing and hysterical loud mouth old bag pontificating is moot.

Worm food! BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

Worm food....You lousy troll. Pull yourself up from the gutter amongst all the garbage.